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DATE IN YOUR NICHE forget mainstream

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Donder and I met online and people said this was courageous after 50+ w but we really believe the person who you are seeking is also seeking you. Both of us wanted the exact same thing. We decided to try dating in our NICHE…and here we are in the bes...
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Date exactly who you like.

Figure out what kind of person you want to be with and go to that niche. 

 
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Do you want to date a millionaire? Is money key in finding your match? Are you successful and want to meet your match…Why not?! Nothing wrong with that at all…We are not hating on you…go for it.
MillionaireMatch® | We Invented Millionaire Dating Industry!
 
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We are 50+ and this site makes it easy to meet. The 50+ demographic have more time and money to go exploring life is sweeter together. This is what we love to do…but make a list and see what you actually want to do.
Senior Dating Site for 50 Plus Senior Singles - SeniorMatch
 
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Are you a fabulous older woman who wants a great relationship even just for fun?! You can have it all…this site is for Coguars where grown folks can live exactly as they want to! I was once a cougar…but now I'm with a tiger! lol!
OlderWomenDating | Premium Dating Site For Older Women & Younger Men
 
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Are you herpes positive? It's awful I'm sure but should you be alone for the rest of your life? Of course NOT. Here is where you can meet others and there is no explanation needed…I have a cousin who married someone with her own STD and it really wor...
#1 STD & Herpes Dating Site With 2+ Million Positive Singles
 
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This site has it ALL basically. You can meet your big love from a variety of niches. Go have a look perhaps you can discover something new about yourself. It's like an all in one! Find the man who is seeking you!
Large Friends - The Dating Communities for a Large and Diverse Pool of Singles
 
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Do you have food sensitivities? Do you eat gluten free and want a partner who is the same…here you go! Nothing to stop you from finding your match. My grandma used to say there is a top for every pot. We feel like everyone should be happy and in a go...
MPWH | #1 Herpes Dating Site & App for HSV Singles
 
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Are you active? Do you enjoy biking…there is definitely someone who shares your interest. Isn't this cool guys?!!! We love this especially since Donder is Dutch and bike riding is a big part of their culture. This is a great site! It would be so fun ...
Biker Dating & Personals for Biker Singles and Motorcycle riders - BikerKiss
 
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Another culture, race or location may be exactly what you are looking for. This is fun way to meet someone completely different from you to share experiences and perhaps even a life with. Never a dull moment with someone who is not exactly like you. ...
Best Interracial Dating Site - InterracialMatch.com
 
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We're seniors and dating online really worked out for us. Please don't give up, life is for living and we certainly are living to the fullest.
DateMyAge.com — Active Senior Dating for Mature Singles Young at Heart
 
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I think this site is cool because people stuck at sea should be dating too. If you like the ocean, why not…date a Captain or crew…it's so very cool.
Sea Captain Date - Find Your First Mate!

Gadgets for online greatness

Simple things we found enhanced our dating experience. 

 
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Protect your eyes from the blue computer light! We have several pairs because we work online as well. But for online dating…these are an absolute essential. We spent many hours online and our eyes suffered until we found these.
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Of course you want to show up in the best light possible. We want to look good. This is worth the money. Especially if you plan on blogging later. Invest in quality. I had this so Donder could see my glowing skin LOL!!!
Elgato 17 inch Ring Light
 
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I LOVE this one, it holds my phone and lights my face. It makes me look fabulous. I truly love this one. THIS ONE is my absolute fav. because it holds my phone for me.
Tzumi ONAIR 8" LED Ring Light with Tripod Stand & Phone Holder
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Donder and I talk so much, we are always running out of power. When we are apart we take each other everywhere. This helps.
Anker 633 Magnetic Battery (MagGo) 10000mAh 2-in-1 Foldable Wireless Portable Charger with 20W USB-C Port for iPhone 13/12,Black
 
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Don't wear out your expensive smart phone like we used to. Invest a little in this great camera. No matter what we are on the phone….
Lenovo Select FHD Webcam
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Date in your city

It's more practical to date in your city. We however didn't give this a second thought. We both just wanted THE ONE!

 
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Date in your city….if you're not up for long distance. Donder and I didn't care where the other one was, we just wanted THE ONE! This site has a branch in lots of cities.
Three Day Rule | Modern Matchmaking
 
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Do you live in the Boston area….this is where we suggest you start and you can start for free! It's free what do you have to lose actually?!!!
Three Day Rule - Boston | Modern Matchmaking
 
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Do you live in the Windy City Chicago??? Honestly this is a very classy way to meet someone in your city. No more cold winters for you…cuddle up to someone in your city. LOL!!!
Three Day Rule - Chicago | Modern Matchmaking
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We can imagine it's difficult to find the “REAL” one in LA. But this is where the genuine people who are truly looking for connection hang out. No more actors…we believe the real ones are here.
Three Day Rule - Los Angeles | Modern Matchmaking
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Welcome to MIAMI! I think this must be a really fun place to date. We love Miami and I think this makes it easy to meet someone special there.
Three Day Rule - Miami | Modern Matchmaking
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The big apple has everything! Dating here is a dream. From romantic dates to theatre and concerts, the best restaurants and such  an amazing city. If we didn't live in Holland, this would be the next choice…it's so cool.
Three Day Rule - New York | Modern Matchmaking
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